Asian Slave Girl that Knows Her Place

The kind of girl I would date/marry.

Hopefully all women will be like her.

Self-Sacrificial Women, Whom I can cuck with Other Women

Somehow, I like it when girl demonstrates that my happiness and pleasure is more important to her than her own one. For example, when she spreads ass of some other women, licks her asshole and then watches how I fuck that other woman in the ass. That shows me that she considers me and my happiness more important than her own. 

I will feel like rewarding her with some of her own orgasms afterwards. However, I want to see this kind of self-sacrificial altruism from her first. That she will clean some other's cunt dirty hole and then will watch me fuck that cunt right in front of her, as she is going without my dick inside.

There are other things I can do to test her altruistic self-sacrificial obedience. There are many ways in BDSM to humiliate and inflict pain. I would like to do these things to her as well. However, these two girls one guy act illustrates it best. 

She has to lower herself before me as low as physically possible for me to like her most. The lower she can bow, the more I will like and value her. The harder and longer I will fuck her afterwards.

If anything, it is the girl that licks another girl's ass and then watches you fuck that other girl instead of her, that is worth keeping, rather than the girl who getting her ass pounded. 

On Lessons of Image, Punishment of Anne Movie

In this movie, an older women wished to attract the men she liked by presenting him her personal female servant. She showed him how her slave girl obeys her, hoping he will get interested in her.

However, this man found her slave girl to be much more to his liking that the woman who ordered said slave girl around.

Only when that older woman realized that and instead begun to emulate her slave girl instead of ordering her around, she managed to get anywhere with the man.

That is because men like submissive women, not dominant women.

That is of course same for me as well. I would not be interested in a girl who only bosses others around and never get her hands and face dirty. That is why idea of any kind of lady sharing power with me over the harem of slave girl will fundamentally leave her all alone as I will only play with slave girls.

There is no way towards my heart that bypasses chocker, dogeza, maid outfit and such. I do not like women who do not do/wear these. 

Meaning Behind Various BDSM Rituals

In BDSM different rituals are used to establish roles and framework of the relationship.

It is similar to how people greet each other in casual integration.

Since nature of this relationship is unequal, each Master and slave have their unique role and place in these rituals.

For example, a collar, that is placed on the neck of the slave, indicates that she is a property of her Master. Similar to how pet (dog) owners place collars on their pets to indicate. Collar reminds slave that she is owned by the Master and bound to his will. When Master sees her with his collar on her neck, he knows she is his. 

Only slaves wear collars, because slaves belong to Master and not the other way around. Master do not belong to a slave. That is different from a traditional marriage ceremony of exchanging rings, that instead indicate a sort of mutual bond.

A leash may be attached to the collar to further emphasize this connection. Leash can be freely handled by the Master, indicating his control over the relationship. On the other end leash is firmly attached to slave's collar, indicating that her life and fate is not hers to control and is in Master's hands.

Slaves kneel before Master, to show their respect and submission to him. When there are on their knees, they even look much smaller compared to standing or even sitting Master. That show both of them that Master is big and important, and slave is small and insignificant. Slave kneeling before Master, shows him that she understands and accepts that she is less important than he is.

Ideally slave should kneel all the way to the ground. That is called genuflection, kowtow or dogeza in Japanese. That shows that she is as low as his feet is. Master then can step on her head or back with his foot to further show, that he is above and superior. She is fully inferior and completely below him in every way. Similar to how commoners kowtow before Chinese Emperor or Muslims before their God. This ritual too shows that slave hold her Master in equally high regard. 

Slave can also lick Master's foot, to further show him her affection. As affection of an inferior being for superior one. Lowly slave girl cannot dare to go higher than her Master's lowest body parts, feet, so she licks there. She should attempt to clean his superior foot with her lowly tongue.

Similarly, it is slave who should lick/eat their Master's ass, not the other way around. That shows that she will gladly take any shit he will throw at her. His waste is her food. That shows that she accepts her inferiority compared to him. Her face belongs between his butt cheeks.

Similarly, it is always Master who whips, slaps, spanks or beats his slave. That is a way for him to show his both his status and power as well as his strength compared to her. Holding various corporal punishment implements, such as crop, whip or cat-o-nine tails shows that master wields that kind of power. 

If a slave touches these implements, for example to bring these implements to her Master, she should never hold them on the handle. Holding them by the handle implies that she wishes to claim his place and power as her own. Therefore, she should avoid doing so, in thus acknowledging that power to punish and inflict pain belongs to Master alone.

Similar to how when a sword is presented to a King by one of his servants, the servant does not hold it by a handle, but rather rests its blade on his open palms. Slave girl too should present crop to the Master in similar fashion, acknowledging that this power is his alone to wield. See picture below for an example.

I am a Calm Dom

In porn I sometimes see some crazy and intimidating looking tattooed doms and such. As if they try to portray maledom as something only crazy men do.

I am not like that. I am calm and collected kind of Dom. 

Doms in Story of O are also calm and collected. They are not psychos; they are in complete clarity of their mind. They spank, manhandle and violate women senselessly without breaking a sweat or loosing even a bit of their compose.

Both Sir Stephen and Rene are closer to how I see myself in maledom relationship. They are not perfect match, but much closer than some crazy guy somewhere there. I would say I am somewhat more cruel and less tolerant to BS, kind of like Gilgamesh, but no less calm. They are other doms from this story do enjoy inflicting pain on women as they enjoy fucking them.

I do mean the original French movie and not the more recent recreation. Sir Stephen from that movie is on picture.

Porn and Cultures/Ethnicities

French BDSM porn is good at times, but German has their good points as well. Both have their issues though. I guess I did not watch enough of each to tell much.

I guess the perfect porn will be if girls behave like Japanese porn, physically look like in Russian porn, dressed like German porn and are abused like in French porn.

The worst porn will be if girls behave like in Russian porn, dressed like in French porn, fucked like in (some) Japanese porn and physically looked like in German/British porn.

How I got into BDSM

When I was searching for porn online, abbreviation BDSM caught my attention. I checked it out and liked some.

Later I would check out BDSM together with some other more vanilla porn. BDSM was one of the staple fetishes of my porn search, together with stockings, garter belts, corsets, thongs, maid outfits (mostly lingerie types that I like on women)

Sometimes going near full BDSM and other times going near full vanilla.

I was somewhat hesitant of BDSM in certain periods.

However, idea of tied up helpless woman does appeal to me on a sexual level. So, I was getting to it more and more often. In the end of the day why choose between lingerie and BDSM when you can have a tied-up woman wearing lingerie.

Gradually I wanted to restrain and degrade woman more and more, so I stared looking at porn where they drink pee, wear panties on their head, lick floor or anting else dirty, eat shit even.

Another think I like is discipline, I always preferred well drilled and disciplined girls over wild ones. I will not watch a porn with girls who fight and resist, when the whole thing looks more like a brawl then a porn. Brawls and arguments are not what I want.

In contrast I like it when female is inanimate: either unconscious or just weak and frail.

There are few things in BDSM that always avoid. I never watch anything with male slaves in it. That is an absolute rule for me. Male slaves or male abuse give me some sort of PTSD or something like that. Not entirely sure why as I do not recall any particular traumatic event of that nature, may be my memories disappeared. Either way I feel very uncomfortable looking at guys in predicament. 

For me slaves must always be female.

Overtime I also started avoiding any porn with female dommies in it, particularly if they are really into the role. Cruel women are not my thing either.

That leaves me with just BDSM of male doms only and female slaves only. And no wild girls either, I want them pliant and docile. 

Pussy Cunt

A response to this.

Indeed, stupid cunts should not touch me all too familiar without permission. She should not place her paws any higher than my knee.

However, I have doubt she will learn her lesson if your punishment gives her so many orgasms.

I do like it how he treats her. I will treat my own pussy cunt in a similar way.

Overall, however it is a very good comic (the 13 pages that they uploaded, I skimmed them through). Art is nice.

Examples of Weakness and Slowness of Japanese Girls.

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More Detailed Guideline of What I Do Not Like and Like in Sex and Girls

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How Basic Sex Poses Preferences Can Tell A Lot About A Person

I personally do not like missionary pose. In fact, I rarely ever save any porn pictures or watch porn videos where girl lays on her back or sits on the chair. 

However, that is not because I find it boring or trivial. I am not such a huge enthusiast of some crazy hanging from the ceiling kind of poses.

I very much like another simple pose called doggy style or bend over. I think girls are very sexy from behind.

After some pondering, I concluded that there is an underlying principle behind this preference. I do not like missionary pose because of the attitude I associate with it. In fact, I do not like anything (sexual or not) that can be connected with that attitude.

I will write a separate article about every single pose of fetish that I do not like later. This one will be about explaining these underlying principles using missionary and bend over poses as examples.

Missionary

Because I will save what I like for later, so that good aftertaste remains by the end of the article.

I think missionary pose is very lazy and selfish on girl's side.

Girl just lay comfortable on her bed with pillow under her head, suffering no inconveniences whatsoever. She needs zero effort in this pose.

She just waits for a guy to find his way to fuck her without bothering to even assume a pose in which it would be easier for him to stick his dick into her hole.

In contrast guy has to not only do all the work, but also do it at rather inconvenient angle. Thighs do not bend backward so you cannot even fuck her efficiently unless you lift her hips or put her legs behind your or her head.

Overall, it is very one sided: girl just gets all pleasure while relaxing on a soft comfy bed; guy on the other side had to balance on his knees on a wobbly bed, while trying to fuck at the same time. All the effort is completely one sided.

Defenders of this pose might say that it allows direct eye contact between partners while doggy style does not. It also more equal than doggy style when girl is bent over and guy towers over her.

However, even this is misleading. While this pose allows people to look at each other during sex, however the picture they see is hardly that appealing, especially on man's side. 

Girl can clearly see men's torso, shoulders, arms and jaw, which are the most attractive parts of male body in female's eyes. They way he looks while doing so it Therefore, she has nothing to complain.

In contrast guy cannot see her ass or asshole at all. Guys do divide on who is more interested in ass or boobs so that clearly does not satisfy the guys who like ass more, such as me. In fact, guy can hardly see her pussy when his dick is inside of it. While he can see or grope her boobs, they are not in their best shape. Boobs are soft and squishy, so if she lays on her back her boobs would look flatter and saggier than they normally are.

Overall while she possibly sees a guy at his best, he sees nothing but a lazy cunt with flattened tits.

Also, I personally do not want that kind of equality or eye contact in my sex. I do not think woman should look man in the eyes as if she is his equal.

Despite some 'equality' intention, the outcome of this pose if 100% one sided. Just like that of feminism.

This pose is all about 'girl's wants'. People who like it have a relationship revolving around girl's whims. By extension other poses and fetishes, they employ are also about girl's whims and empowerment.

Overall, this is a pose for Toxic Moral Last Men and their selfish women. I whore a separate article about them recently.

Bent Over

Now for a good part. Bent over.

Here girl bends her waist 90 degrees (or even further) forward and makes her ass available for the man to use.

She can either do it on all fours (doggy style) or lean on a table of something similar. 

Unlike missionary she actually has to use some effort to support herself in this pose. He is not the only one who has to put effort.

Man of course does most of the work as he does the fucking. However, she does makes it as easy for him as she can by making her holes as widely open and available for him as she can. That is something I can call an attempt to meet him halfway.

On all fours it could be less comfortable for her that it is for him, but either way it is either both of them on their knees or on their feet.

Overall, it is more of a mutual effort. She makes herself as available for him as she can, and he fucks her this way.

Looks wise bent over make her back, thighs and ass together with asshole and pussy clearly visible to him.

People who are into ass can clearly see every part of the body they like in a woman, and they see it from the best possible angle.

Not only that, but her ass actually looks better when she is bent down. It becomes visually rounder, wider and sexier. 

Her asshole and pussy also become clearly visible. I personally find it very important as I want to have a clear view of a hole, in which I am to insert my dick. I do not want it to go into a filthy unwashed hole, so I want to check that she washed both of them thoroughly before committing to fucking her.

In fact, man can even see her tits if they look sideways a bit. 

In reverse to when lays on bed, when tits hang down, they look somewhat bigger and rounder than even when she stands, much less when she lays on her back.

Girl would have to turn her head backwards to catch any sight of him. That is finnicky, but possible. From this angle guy might look even more impressive than from missionary. 

She will not have a clear view of him, but neither will he as his view will shake too much as he fucks her. Besides once it gets fast enough neither of them will be able to get a good look at another.

Attitude implication

Unlike missionary that makes girl look lazy privileged and spoiled, bend over makes her look humble and accommodating.

She humbly lowers her head down and makes herself and her holes available for him to make both of them happy. She does not try to be a man or reach man's position together with power and authority that sometimes comes with it. She accepts that she is just a girl and accepts her place in life and in a sexual act.

In contrast, guy proudly and mighty towers over her in his superiority. He is stronger and more powerful in this pose and able to push into her with all his strength.

I personally like it when she lowers her head as low as she can and just humbly looks on the ground without raising her head. In fact, I would like to push her head as low as possible as I feel more drive and desire to fuck her if I can feel that she is under me completely.

In a broader sense, I want to feel that she belongs to me completely and without any reservations. She is a complete puppet in my hands. Maledom allows me to feel this way about her. Putting chocker on her neck and holding her leash. Putting her in handcuffs, armbinder and other restrains all do help to achieve these things.

Further Implications

From a basic preference to bend over pose over missionary many other implications can be delivered.

Those who prefer to fuck bent over girls are likely be interested in other poses that highlight their superiority over girl and put her lower and lower, making her weaker smaller and ultimately sexier and girl-ier. At high extreme they will be willing to embrace maledom.

They are proud member of Male Master Race (MMR). I myself is a member of MMR.

Out girls are nothing like those of TMLM or their Toxic Selfish Girls (TMG). They are good Slave Maid Girls (SMG)

Here is a picture of proper relationship between MMR and SMG

Further Ideas

I do wonder if girl's preference to doggy style over missionary indicates that she is submissive and subservient to men in general. That she is SMG rather than TSG.

In fact, perhaps even basic preference between ass and tits can showcase that, however people who just like ass can do so for different reasons.

I wonder if whether a girl more eager to showcase her ass or tits can show whether she is SMG or TSG.

Maledom and Femdom

"Communism is nothing like capitalism. Capitalism is exploitation of a man by a man and communism is the other way around."

I think I have written about it in one of my previous blog posts, but possibly not. 

Aside from few foundational principles that defined these systems, both communist world and market capitalism free world actually had a lot in common. They were almost like a mirror image of each other. There was a great deal animosity between systems that was mutual. Both build up their militaries and look for allies to defend against the other superpower and their allies. Both built spaceships to win space before the other one could. Both thought that Beatles corrupt youth and destroy moral. Though they could not quite agree if Beatles destroy Chirstian or Socialist moral. I will write more about it in a separate post later.

BDSM

Admittedly there are plenty of similarities between maledom and femdom. With exception of obvious difference of which gender is in charge, which is subordinated and a few other things, many other aspects of both relationships rather similar. Similar not in the way that they copy or follow each other, more like they are mirror image inversions of each other.

In femdom female mistress rules over male sub who worships and obeys her.

In maledom male master rules over female slave who worships and obeys him.

There is also homosexual BDSM where both partners are of the same gender, but I will not cover it here.

Conceptual Comparison

Here I am not talking simply of purely sexual practices, that people might do from time to time. I am talking of a far going 24/7 commitment to one or the other role and approach to live that was born out of BDSM 'scene'.

If you read/watch Story of O, you can notice that people there do not treat it as a mere fetish or scene. They commit to it, consensually, but commit for good as a way of life.

First some ideology that underpins both systems.

Mutual Animosity

While BDSM is a broad term that include variety of practices, over time some fetishes drifted further away from each other.

Fueled by feminist on one side and Alt-Right/Lite MGTOW on the other, femdom and maledom will drift further apart from each other.  

Just like in Cold War there is animosity between the sides. Femdom adherents possibly find idea of beating women repulsive. However, Maledom supporters find idea of domineering woman barking orders or just yelling equally repulsive.

Hillary Clinton lost Presidental elections precisely because she repulses anti-femdom people as much as Donald Trump repulses feminists.

Values

For both personal sexual preferences mixed with some sort of value system that underpins their relationship as well as their individual place in it.

Femdom adherent possibly worship women because they give birth to children. Femdom subs value this quality of women so much that they willing to obey and worship them for this reason. Most likely they attract arrogant selfish women who crave status money and power.

Maledom instead insists that it is men, who are better, more advanced and valuable gender. Men are not only stronger, but also smarter. It is men who do science, discover continents and build civilization. Women are just primitive dumb cock craving, penis envy creatures who should just serve the more advanced gender, already endowed with these things.

Ideology

Both sides have some form of ideology or at least ad-hoc body of believes that justify or excuse their stance and behavior. 

Femdom has feminism. It claims that women were oppressed by men in the past and need to be 'liberated' and 'compensated' for past oppression. That essentially excuses everything woman could do no matter how much it hurts men. It allows and justifies women abusing men.

Maledom is more ad-hoc and diverse in that regard. There is Alt-Right/Lite, MGTOW and many other such groups who mostly went their grievances. However basic idea is the mirror image of feminism. Here however it is women who wronged collective men and now has to recompence for their past and present misdeeds. 

Alt-Right and MGTOW leads Maledom just as much as feminism leads to femdom.

Unlike feminism, that claims to represent equality, but in practice disempower men and simply puts all power in woman's hands, anti-feminism instead claim that woman's natural place is to serve and obey men.

In general, maledom is of course much more natural and organic than femdom. It is femdom who tries to put woman in man's natural role for which she not equipped.

History

I am not sure if it were submissive men, fathers of daughters or selfish and ambitious 'oppressed' women themselves, who created feminism. Perhaps all three groups combined their efforts as it serves all their interests.

For submissive men it cultivates dommes.

For fathers of daughters, it ensures that their future son-in-law will not beat his wife.

For selfish and ambitious 'oppressed' women it gives opportunities to enrich themselves on the backs of oppressed men.

What however is much clearer to me is that MGTOW and Alt-Right/Lite were created as a reaction and rejection of feminism. Just like the world eventually got so alarmed by Comintern and USSR advances, it created NATO to oppose it.

Because of that it is much younger and newer than feminism. Its ideology was forming on the go and kept evolving when feminist ideology was already complete and fleshed out.

Because of that Alt-Right of the past not necessary the same as it is nowadays.

While MGTOW does mean 'men going their own way' that does not necessarily mean rejection of all women. Just the feminist women. 

Relationship Dynamics

Actual sexual practices are also similar mirror image of each other.

Relationship in both cases consist of glorifying the superior gender and humiliating the subordinate one.

Dom(me) orders slave around, and they do their bidding.

Slave in turn must be willing to obey and please their Dom(me) as well as to endure any pain and humiliation their wish to inflict upon them.

There are few differences,

Men of course do not need strap-on to fuck their slave girls in the ass.

There is no cross-dressing in maledom, because while dressing men in female clothes will humiliate him, dressing woman in male clothes will hardly do so.

However, there are other things men can do to humiliate a girl, such as making her wear panties on her head or lick the floor or a toilet bowl.

Spreading asshole

 I like girls head down and ass up.

I also like it when they spread their assholes with their fingers as far as they can possibly get it.

That shows me that she is willing to go to great length to and rip her hole as far as humanly possible for the sake of pleasing me.

It shows both dedication to me as well as willingness to endure pain.

I do not like girls who are to stingy and protective of their hole.